How strange we must seem to them

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I was re-reading bits of Blues people by LeRoi Jones (now Amiri Baraka) and was really struck by this:

But one of the most persistent traits of the Western white man has always been his fanatical and almost instinctive assumption that his systems and ideas about the world are the most desirable, and further, that people who do not aspire to them, or at least think them admirable, are savages or enemies. The idea that Western thought might be exotic if viewed from another landscape never presents itself to most Westerners.

These words were first published in 1963, but they are remarkably relevant to our current situation. Just as many Americans simply couldn’t fathom why Native Americans didn’t want to rush to become farmers, we remain officially baffled by the idea that not everyone on the planet doesn’t leap to embrace free market capitalism, democracy (“Fresh from Florida – Just like Mom used to make!”), and a secular (or at least Judeo-Christian) culture.

While this plays itself out most dramatically in the halls of power, it’s also visible in the small ways door-to-door. My lovely wife has lived in the States since we got married in 1989. She has permanent resident status, and can live and work in the U.S. to the end of her days. But she has chosen to not become a citizen of the United States of America. When she wakes up in the morning, she doesn’t think of herself as an American; she thinks of herself as a British person living (quite happily) in America. She chooses to have her official status reflect these feelings, so the passport in her drawer is from the UK, not the US.

What’s amazing is how many well meaning people are surprised, often baffled, by this decision. Surely you want to become an American! Doesn’t everyone on the planet want to become an American?!?

‘Fraid not.

Lots of people are quite happy where they are, and many (whether they’re happy with their lot or not) actively don’t want to “be just like us”. And these aren’t just extremists (at home or abroad). The vast majority are regular folks who, for various and sundry reasons, see our attitudes and way of life “exotic” (to use Jones’ phrase) rather than desirable or even admirable.

As this year’s election frenzy comes to an end, and various folks try to paint people as “other”, remember that we may well be just as strange and frightening to them.

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What do we choose to remember about September 11th?

Today our campus mall was graced with zillions of little paper American flags as part of one of the many “Don’t forget” events on this, the 5th anniversary of the tragedy of September 11th.

While I’m sure that those involved had only the best of intentions, I must confess to being deeply disappointed, as there doesn’t seem to have been a great deal of thought put into what we should remember and why. The collapse of the Towers (and the crash of the other two planes that day) was, without a doubt, a truly profound tragedy. Thousands of people died, people with complex lives and loved ones, yet here their lives are here reduced to little paper flags (apparently one per fatality in the Towers). What’s worse is that there were hundreds of foreign citizens from dozens of countries, making the use of this specifically American symbol particularly unfortunate.

So what are we trying to remember? A body count and a flag?

Might we better remember the lives of those people who died? (The AIDS Quilt would make an excellent model.)

Or the broad diversity of people affected?

Perhaps the day when the U.S. had the sympathy and support of nearly the entire world?

I’m sure we could have done better.

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